What is a B.F.F.?

It has been quite some time since I last blogged. I haven't really had much to say, which is surprising, because I usually always have something on my mind or the tip of my tongue. However, there is one subject that has come up a lot lately and I figured it was about time to "talk".

What is a B.F.F? Best Friends Forever, Best Forbidden Food, Black Fluffy Fur, Best Forplay Fun, Big F'ing Festival, Big Foul Farts, Big Friendly Fairy, etc....You get the idea!

In girl terms, it would mean Best Friends Forever. But the question I have is, What is a true B.F.F.? To me, it would mean that there is no other friend that could take your place. That you are the first and foremost "girlfriend" you would go to in times of sorrow or happiness. It would also mean being there for one another in good times and bad; Comforting each other in times of need; Laughing at the fun things and the Stupid things that you may or may not do; Not judging each other, no matter what, etc.

Where is this going you may ask? Well... At work, it has started to be a running joke. We tell each other that we are BFF stealers and you can't have more than one BFF and if you want more than one BFF, then it needs to be an F.U. (Friend Unconditionally) or an F.U.2 (Friend Unconditionally #2). Is it really necessary to have only 1 BFF or could a person actually have 2 BFF's? I think it is definitely possible to have 2 or more BFF's. Your second BFF could be there for you on a different level than your first BFF. But you are always going to have a connection with your first BFF that you may not have with your second BFF. Also, would anyone object to having a pet be a BFF? I would have to say No! Bella is a great BFF. She greets me at the door at the end of a workday and keeps me company when no one else is around.

In conclusion...BFF's are wonderful! Especially if you have more than one! Or maybe we should do away with all BFF's, then that way no one will be offended.